Criticism – The truth about why they criticize. What to do. w Kevin Hogan
You have critics. Remember: They criticize, first, to help boost their own self esteem. Every time you want to start a project you have someone who wants to criticize you. It hurts. Consider for a moment who the most criticized people are and how they cope. Consider how they reduce the criticism. Athletes, actors, authors and all other highly paid people know that being tough on yourself FIRST is square one. But knowing when to be tough and when to appreciate your performance and let go of negative results is another big puzzle piece. The criticism in this video can be from the crazy employee in the next cubicle or the neighbor next door. You NEVER want to beat yourself up. You DO want to have established criteria for evaluating your own performance so that you are your own toughest critic. When you are at this level, the criticism of others tends to roll off your back. When you have failed to establish criteria for your performance, all their criticism is going to REALLY hurt badly. So here’s how I want you to fix this problem and then turn it into gold.
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